Showing posts with label spouse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spouse. Show all posts

Jan's Story: A Love Lost to Alzheimer's (Video)


By Bob DeMarco


Finally, when her anger and confusion were slipping out of our control, I moved her into an assisted-living facility, where on each painful visit I see the changes as she disappears a little more.

A friend calls it grieving, like saying goodbye by going to the same funeral over and over again.

"It's really challenging to grieve someone that's sitting right in front of you," said Kallmyer. "It's really challenging to grieve someone that you've just helped take a bath and get them dressed."

"Because it's such a long process and a long road that a family travels down together, it changes family dynamics," said Pring. "And it takes away all our preconceived notions about how families should look and how they should function."

"I know that he will always be in my life," Jan said.

The World has Ended……The Diagnosis


Our world just ended. That was my first thought on hearing my husband’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s.....
By Carol Blackwell


"Dr. Blackwell, the test results are back. You did very poorly on them—not at all what would be expected from someone with your education. You have dementia and it is probably Alzheimer’s, based on your family history. There is no cure for Alzheimer’s.